A Complete Guide to Men’s Wedding Attire
Weddings can be a whole lot of fun, but thinking about what to wear
to them can be a pain, particularly when there are dress codes involved.
The same questions of “Which suit will look best?”, “Do I need a tie?”
and “What will the other gents be wearing?” inevitably pop up every
time. Then there’s the challenge of dressing appropriately without
looking like a clone of every other man invited. Lucky for you, we’re
here to help. So, if you want to nail the dress code, know exactly where
to inject some personal style, and look suave as hell, here’s your new
go-to guide.
Wedding Attire Tips
- Always check the dress code.
- Opt for lighter colours for daytime weddings and darker hues for evening events.
- Most dress codes, other than smart casual, will call for a suit.
- Good tailoring and well-fitting pieces are essential to looking polished.
- Always remember to finish off your look with the right shoes.
- Add fun touches of personal style to your outfit, particularly for cocktail attire.
- It’s better to be overdressed than underdressed, but it’s also important to feel comfortable.
Formal / Black Tie Wedding Attire
Black tie
and formal dress codes are strictly reserved for social occasions that
call for a high level of dress. Therefore, if you’re invited to a
wedding with this code on the invitation, be sure to dress to the nines.
Keep it suave, sophisticated and simple with spot-on tailoring to nail
this type of attire.
Black Tie Suits
For a black tie wedding, a black tuxedo is
the most appropriate option. Your suit should be well-tailored and
fitted for a classic and sleek look. Aim to keep the overall appearance
simple by opting for a single-breasted style with a sharp, minimalistic
appeal. Also remember that a slim cut tends to be the most flattering
and will keep your style suitably modern. As for the lapel, peak or
shawl styles are best. If you’re looking for a way to stand out from the
crowd, try a midnight blue tux.
Black Tie Shirts
When it comes to your shirt, keep it simple
and classic for a black tie wedding. A sharp, white, dress shirt
featuring a turndown or wing collar is the ideal choice. Opt for one in a
high-quality fabric to ensure your look appears formal and polished.
Keep the overall style clean and timeless by avoiding any loud design
details. Now, simply finish off your minimalist look with a superbly
dapper, black bowtie.
Black Tie Shoes
Shoes for a formal or black tie wedding need
to be sophisticated. Be sure to keep yours suitably stylish with a pair
of patent, leather dress shoes. Of course, black is the only reasonable
choice to go with this dress code as all others would, unfortunately,
appear underdressed. Ensure the shape is appropriately suave by choosing
a classic style with a narrowed, round toe. Also, be positive that your
shoes are well polished, unscuffed and clean before wearing them.
Cocktail Wedding Attire
Cocktail attire
demands a look that bridges the gap between casual evening wear and
formal wear. It’s also a chance to experiment a little more with your
outfit and add a touch of personal style. Mixing clean and classic
pieces with more contemporary styles and design details is a great way
to pull off this look. In the end, your outfit should give a nod to
traditional styles while staying lively with modern details.
Cocktail Attire Suits
When it comes to suits for a cocktail
wedding, opt for a well-tailored, semi-formal two piece. Darker suits in
navy, cobalt and dark grey are a classic option for cocktail attire.
Keep the cut close to the body, but not too tight, for a modern look.
Also, keeping your suit mostly classic, add contemporary and stylish
touches, such as a patterned pocket square or slim tie. For those of a
more adventurous disposition, a windowpane or check suit can also work
well.
Cocktail Attire Shirts
When choosing a shirt for a wedding
with a cocktail dress code, be sure to select a fitted dress shirt. To
play it safe, select either a white or powder blue shirt. If you’re
looking for something a little more unique, however, add interest in the
form of colour, pattern or fabric. Anything from a dusky pink hue to a
bold check and even a unique texture can all elevate your look past the
regular. Just make sure that your shirt compliments your suit, rather
than clashing with it.
Cocktail Attire Shoes
Choosing the right shoes is essential
to creating a sharp and stylish cocktail look. While you may feel
tempted just to pull out a pair of plain, black dress shoes, try to
choose something a little less stuffy. A classic Oxford with a rounded
toe is generally the shoe of choice for cocktail weddings and is a fine
one at that. Alternatively, a stylish and formal loafer or doubble monk
can make a trend-worthy choice.
Semi-Formal Wedding Attire
Sitting somewhere amidst the worlds of formal and cocktail attire is the somewhat ambiguous
semi-formal dress code.
Not quite as done-up as formal attire, and not quite as contemporary as
cocktail attire, semi-formal can be a hard dress code to pin down. The
helpful part is, unlike strict dress codes, semi-formal is less
restrictive and more open to interpretation. All you need to do is aim
for a sharp and classic look that you’re comfortable hitting the
dancefloor in.
Semi-Formal Suits
Formal dressing is about the overall look.
Cocktail dressing is about the details. As for semi-formal dressing,
well that’s all about the suit. Choosing a great suit that’s
exceptionally tailored will go a long way to helping your pull off a
sensational semi-formal look. When it comes to colour, opt for more
subdued tones. Understated neutrals and washed-out hues will do the
trick for daytime weddings while turning up the intensity to something
darker works for evening receptions.
Semi-Formal Shirts
Choosing a shirt for a semi-formal wedding
needn’t be a difficult task. In fact, it should be quite simple. A
classic, fitted dress shirt in a subdued, block colour is your guideline
to follow. White will offer gents a more formal look while soft blues
and greys tend to appear more relaxed. No matter which colour you pick,
be sure the shirt looks minimal and sharp. As to whether you should wear
a tie or not, the choice is yours.
Semi-Formal Shoes
The right pair of shoes will pull your
semi-formal outfit together flawlessly, so make sure you put thought
into your footwear. A dapper pair of brogues, Oxfords or loafers will
suit well and elevate your look past those of other guests. Take your
style up a notch by dabbling in suede or velvet.
Smart Causal Wedding Attire
While you won’t often see “casual” on a wedding invite, you may see “
smart casual“.
A favourite for beach wedding, a smart casual dress code invites guests
to wear something they’re comfortable in while keeping things slightly
elevated. The challenge is to find a good balance between “casual” and
“smart” styles of dress. Think about deconstructed versions of formal
wear and mixing tailored pieces with more relaxed styles to pull off
this code.
Smart Causal Blazers
For a smart casual wedding, a suit
really isn’t necessary. If you do choose to wear one, however, make sure
that it’s casual. A great lightweight fabric or loosely structured
style will achieve this with ease. An ideal alternative to the suit,
however, is a blazer and trousers. While you may be tempted to wear
jeans, we recommend a stylish pair of chinos instead. As for your
blazer, keep it simple and easy going.
Smart Causal Shirts
While you may not need a suit for a smart
casual wedding, you will need a button-up shirt. In general, T-shirts
are too casual for weddings, so steer clear and opt for something more
sophisticated. Keep your shirt classic with traditional colours and
patterns in order to elevate your style. Where the “casual” can come in
is in the fabric. Lightweight fabrics have a more unstructured
appearance and will help your outfit look just the right amount of
relaxed.
Smart Causal Shoes
To finish off your smart casual look, pick
out a pair of polished casual shoes. Choose between styles such as
loafers, driving shoes, and monks to find your ideal footwear. Colours
in brown and navy will give your style the perfect relaxed look while
remaining sophisticated. Likewise, leather and suede styles will appear
more appropriately casual compared to patent leather styles.